If I have to choose grappling with man or a woman, I will decide for the last.
No I am not intolerant, but right and correct decisions of ADAC fits in 21st century.
Men are becoming observers (voyeurs) and from time to time they want to touch themselves on the ground and call that mixed martial weaponry. Of course - yes.
Women wants more than just always the same aerobics in 1001 variations. They want to put out all aggression - from childhood good girl to nice and smiling wife. So...grappling with a girl or a woman with all those feminine punches is exciting for both - instructor and opponent.